Posted by Ashley on August 7th, 2008. Tags: birth
Does the ACOG seriously not remember that most women throughout time have given birth in their homes?
As of now, no actual legislation has been drawn up, but the AMA has agreed to back a measure called “Resolution 205,” a request to support the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ (ACOG) position that home births are not safe.
“We are against home births, period,” said Gregory Phillips, an ACOG spokesman.
Due to Ezra’s heart rate decels during early contractions, I’m glad I was at a hospital. And so that’s made me a bit nervous about any future birth(s), but I think a birth center would be ideal — personalized care, certified nurse-midwives, and connections with a local doctor (who is natural-childbirth friendly) and hospital if the need arises.
Here’s the article if you’re interested in reading the whole thing.
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Posted by Ashley on July 29th, 2008. Tags: Ezra
Ezra is 11 months old today! He’ll soon be transitioning to toddlerhood — wow. He now proudly says “mama” and “dada” and “Daaa” for dog. He’s also said “bana” for banana a few times and he’s attempting to say bird, as we generally go out to our back yard and observe the hummingbirds in the morning.
I put him on our bathroom scale and he’s somewhere between 18 and 19 pounds as best I can figure. We haven’t got our insurance all figured out yet, so hopefully he’ll get to go when he’s around 1 year. His first birthday party is coming up in a few weeks! Anyone have any great party ideas? I’m looking for an activity that little kids and their parents can do. Our friends did iron-ons and that was fun…so something like that.
Oh, and we’ll get some pictures taken and up soon! We’re just trying to keep getting our house picked up, the ants killed, and keep unpacking a few more boxes. One of these days we’ll get things more like home. 
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Posted by Ashley on July 17th, 2008. Tags: design
We all went to a few shops yesterday to look at fabrics and furniture. The clincher is figuring out what to do with our brown and black checked couch. It’s been great to have — it’s from Bryce’s folks — but the color and style don’t go with the look we’re going for. We’re trying to decide if it makes sense to buy a slipcover if that’s not even the look we want; so we’re checking out some model home furniture places to see if we can find a modern black couch. Something like this would be ideal:

I’ve found a dark silver silk (or imitation silk, not sure) fabric that would make great curtains. And there are a few fabrics on Etsy that I’m excited about:


We’re planning to revamp our small wood china cabinet into a bar (painting it black, mirrors on shelves, etc) and painting our white mirror w/ hooks black too. I want to find some cool lampshades or recover the ones we have with fabric. Anyone know how to do that?
We’re at a bit of a standstill as we can’t do much until we’ve solved the couch dilemma. Nonetheless it’s been fun researching and I’m looking forward to getting started soon.
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Posted by Ashley on July 15th, 2008.
One of the boy names we liked when we found out we were pregnant was Knox, both for the coolness of it and because it was after the Scottish Reformer. When we arrived in Pasadena some new-then now very close friends, Brian and Joy, had named their son Knox, born a year and a half before Ezra was. So we nixed Knox and chose Ezra.
I guess Knox would still be an option for a future child, however, now that the Jolie-Pitts have snagged it for one of their twins, it’s likely to rise in popularity. So that’s out. Bummer.
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Posted by Ashley on July 12th, 2008. Tags: design

So, we’re all moved in to our place in San Diego and have a few things left to unpack. I’ve been absolutely hooked on HGTV’s Design Star and have been procrastinating from the unpacking process by watching episodes online. The good thing, however, is that it’s getting me all crafty and Bryce and I are really excited to get working on pulling our living room together into a cohesive style.
We’ll have to do things in stages and since we can’t paint (since we’re renting), we’ll have to be creative about what we hang on the wall. Bryce and I stayed in The Viceroy(pictures below) in Palm Springs for a get-a-way last fall and loved the bold, geometric designs and colors and were hoping to copy some of that when were buying a downtown LA loft. The color palette at the Viceroy is bold black and white with accents of yellow and feels like 30’s Hollywood glam. So although that would’ve been perfect for a loft space, there is a bit of it that feels mid-century retro, too. We’re going to do our best to adapt the color palette for our current living room space (sage/seafoam green, black and white) and are looking for a slipcover for one sofa and some great accessories. Bryce is also going to build some wood panels for our walls that we’ll paint (putting his new table saw to use!). It’ll be a mix of minimalism, clean lines, geometric shapes with a touch of old Hollywood glamour (and perhaps a bit of the Hollywood Regency style). I’m so excited to get going!
We have a bunch of red accents right now in our living room that we’ll have to transition to the kitchen eventually. It’s hard as we’ll only be in our current space for a year, to know how to purchase and make things as this isn’t a permanent space to work with. So it’ll have to be a transitional design. Let me know if you have any thoughts or suggestions. I’m scouring Etsy for ideas and great finds!


I guess it makes sense that I really liked Katie’s bathroom: 
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Posted by Ashley on June 25th, 2008. Tags: photos

Since I’m often behind the lens, I thought I’d “steal” this from my dad’s flickr site and put up on our blog. Gotta love the strawberry residue on Ezra’s chin and subsequently on my shirt!
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Posted by Ashley on June 18th, 2008. Tags: San Diego
Hooray! We just got word that we’re approved to rent a 3 bedroom/2 bath house in Mira Mesa! We will have a *separate* office, which means we can work and print things after Ezra goes to bed. Ezra will have his own room and Francis (and all of us) will have a YARD! I’m so excited.
Check out our new digs here.
Now we just need to raise enough money for our salary so we can pay rent. 
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Posted by Ashley on June 9th, 2008.
We are soon to be gainfully employed! Bryce got a job at Harbor in San Diego. Harbor was started in 1999 and now has about 8 sites with approximately 5 church planters, but it’s one church. He’ll be spending about 75 percent of his time developing outreach and mercy ministries with the Mira Mesa and UTC sites and the other 25 percent will be spent seeing other church plants start across the city. We’ll let you know more soon. (Also if you’re interested in supporting us financially and/or through prayer, please email me your postal address. We have to raise most of our salary for the year).
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Posted by Ashley on June 2nd, 2008. Tags: city mouse
I’d like to think more about living intentionally in either the city, country or suburbs. So, in preparation for a future post of mine, if you could please answer the following questions for me:
a) Where did you grow up (city, country, suburb) and where do you live now?
b) Are you married and do you have kids?
c) Where do you see yourself living long term? Is it influenced by either a) or b)?
d) State your reasons for c). Is it simply due to circumstances or due to feeling it’s the right place for you (or something else)?
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Posted by Ashley on May 27th, 2008.
…is still pretty little. Here are his 9-month stats:
Weight: 16 lbs 12 oz (3rd percentile)
Length/Height: 27 3/4 in (25th percentile)
Head circumference 50th percentile
So we will keep feeding him as much cheese, avocado and banana as he likes as he’s obviously not keeping too much of it on his bones.
Ezra is a happy boy who is quite active, loves to smile and laugh, loves to move around (crawling and some pulling up on to furniture now), and loves to make a mess with his food. He also really likes door stoppers, cords and laughing when he crawls from the carpet to the tile.
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