My breastfeeding story: Porter
Really there’s not much of a story here.
Many moms have a very hard time breastfeeding their first child (latch problems, supply issues, etc). I didn’t but I was worried about my milk coming in late. Since it came in so late with my first (see post below), I wasn’t sure if that was due to the circumstances of his birth or that my milk just came in that late normally. So I continued to nurse Ezra through my pregnancy with Porter partly because I wanted to make sure that Porter had something to eat when he was born.
The birth was beautiful (although a bit crazy). Porter took to nursing right away and has never looked back since. He’s consistently gained much faster than Ezra in fact. What has been interesting is introducing the whole concept of tandem nursing an infant and a toddler. Would I have enough milk for both? Would Ezra (since he’s older and more developed) take too much so Porter wouldn’t get enough? How could I tell Ezra ‘no’ when Porter was nursing?
First let me say that the resources at Kelly Mom have been fabulous, as has Nursing Two. And mainly, I don’t analyze it much. I make sure I’m eating and try to drink lots of water to keep my milk supply up. I generally only let Ezra nurse 3 times a day and when he asks other times, sometimes I’ll let him have a sip, or other times he’ll get something special like lemonade or juice (watered down). Porter is happy and gaining weight so I’m not too worried. What I do love is watching Ezra get excited to nurse with Porter, that he says “Ezra’s side” and “Po-po’s side” when he’s nursing by himself at night. Some might think that a bit weird. But he’s already learning to share his most precious resource before he’s yet 2 years old. He already is learning to think of another and that’s a big deal for this mama. (He does not always watch his feet and so coupled with the lovely caring of his younger sibling regarding nursing, is the chance of kicking said sibling in the face if he’s not watching where he’s going
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August 5th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
I think it’s FANTASTIC that Ezra’s already learning about sharing with his brother. I would think that tandem nursing will help them bond. And KellyMom is such a handy site.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
My mom nursed my youngest brother and sister for several years each.
August 6th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Thanks for these posts
Elissa is now back up to the 50th centile (where she was when she was born) having dropped to the 2nd centile for a while and I was told that I would have to give up breast feeding and switch to formula, even give her prescription formula! I ignored this advice and continued to breastfeed and it all came good. I was so upset being given that advice and I couldn’t even figure out why I was so upset by it. I guess the maternal instinct kicking in?
I have been grateful for the legal position in Scotland that you have the right to breastfeed in public places. It is an offence to ask someone to stop breastfeeding. Still, it is interesting to observe the reactions that you get
I was amazed at how uninhibited I was about breastfeeding.
Some random thoughts for you there…