Archive for April, 2008

Book club?

Posted by Ashley on April 28th, 2008

As I’m entering my final week of college teaching, I’m sad to leave behind teaching literature. So I’m thinking about starting an online book club, perhaps just for the summer, or for longer, if there are enough people interested. Would anyone be interested in joining? And if so, do you have any ideas on the best online venue (forums, yahoo groups, facebook events, Library Thing group, etc) or book suggestions?

UPDATE:The link for the book club wiki is here. I imagine most activity will take place on the forum.

A real date!

Posted by Ashley on April 19th, 2008

Bryce and I just went out to The Arroyo Chop House courtesy of several wonderful people. We received a generous gift card from a couple at church for Christmas and one of my students offered to babysit Ezra so we could go out — as a going-away present for us. We had a lovely, leisurely meal. Bryce had the surf and turf and I had the petit filet and the asparagus salad (I always have to order asparagus when we’re out b/c Bryce can’t stand it). We shared some garlic mashed potatoes and creamed spinach and had a bottle (nearly) of a Californian Syrah. We also splurged and shared a chocolate souffle with real whipped cream and vanilla bean ice cream. Anyway, it was fabulous.

And it felt so expressly like a gift and I remember back to so many times we have gone out, just the two of us, and thought it was all pretty normal. And I’ve also realized that since the first time we went out (the 2 of us) since Ezra was born that we have become increasingly (and appropriately so, I think) more lax with Ezra. Most of our first dinner out (around the New Year) was spent wondering if Ezra was doing okay and if Bryce’s parents were handling his crying okay. Now, we’re happy to have someone who loves him look after him and hope all goes well, but we can detach a little bit and enjoy ourselves. It’s part of the growth of parenthood, I guess.

Nothing profound — I simply wanted to share that we had a real, live date! Also, Ezra had a personal best recently: sleeping 8 hours straight in his crib! It felt like a miracle. Now if only every night were like that…

a long night, already

Posted by Ashley on April 9th, 2008

Ezra is crying and isn’t sleeping. I’m exhausted and my nerves are shot. I thought we were done with all this in the “newborn period.” Ah, this motherhood thing is tough. Sometimes I wonder what God was thinking when he gave us a child — I already feel like I’m screwing Ezra up! I guess anything to make us more dependent on God, eh?

Teething on a carrot

Posted by Ashley on April 7th, 2008

carrot

The next chapter

Posted by Ashley on April 5th, 2008

As many of you know, Bryce and I attended the PCA’s Church Planting Assessment Center in Atlanta back in February. After several days of working on church-planting exercises, sharing our sense of call to church planting, and realizing how utterly at a loss we are without Christ, our call to church planting was confirmed by the assessors. They did, however, recommend that before “letting us loose on society” that we complete a 1- to 2-year apprenticeship where we could work on some issues. Given the fact that Bryce’s position was due to be completed at the end of April, going directly into church planting and all that that entails (esp. fundraising to cover the first 3-5 years), would’ve been too much of a stress for us. So we were excited about having a transitional phase that would allow us to ease into church planting, find a location that fits us and work at developing financial and prayer support for the work ahead of us.

We had two options right after Assessment for our apprenticeship, both in California. Feeling pressed for time, we looked into both options. Both came crashing down. Being that both Bryce and I like to plan things out in advance, we had already been scoping out rental properties and condos to purchase on craigslist. Our dreams for a house with a yard (for our dog) and a dishwasher (to alleviate household tension and dishes-buildup) burst. The beginning of March found us again asking God what he was doing with us and even questioning if we were called to church planting, given things weren’t working out. We also felt like we were up against a wall as Bryce only had 2 pay checks left.

So we changed tactics. Bryce called a church in Oregon that he had heard great things about and was excited about how they were ministering to the city and basically asked for a job. We began corresponding with them in March and visited this last weekend. Although we had a single day full of hail, rain, snow and sunshine, we think we really like it! We’re still working out details. It’ll be a good fit and there is a network of church planters in the Pacific Northwest that should provide accountability and collegiality (perhaps more than we could have hoped for in CA). The problem is the church doesn’t have any money, so we’ll be raising support for our salary. We’re yet again in a spot where we’re forced to rely on God’s leading, which is good, stretching and immensely challenging.

I’ve put in my resignation at the college, full of tears when I made the announcement. I am very sad to leave, but excited about the next chapter — which will have me taking care of Ezra and writing my own chapters (on my PhD dissertation).

New blog

Posted by Ashley on April 2nd, 2008

I’m really excited that the folks at Ransom Fellowship have started a new blog, Toads Drink Coffee; it looks promising!